You've been cheated on by your spouse and your relationship is in serious trouble. Everything that has been put into the relationship may all have been for nothing and of course you are blaming yourself.
Because of what happened you are now seeing things in a differant light
You are in this situation now because of the situation you find yourself in, an unworthy and somewhat broken person. Read on now to find the answer.
Cheating: Could it be the end of a dream?
When you look back on the day you got married you were full of positive thoughts for the future and what it held in store for you.
And then something happened where "Life" took over, you know, the work, the family ,the chores and discovering that there was always something to be done.
Then what happened? Your spouse cheated on you.
When you found out about the affair some of these thoughts may have entered your mind.
I must have do everything properly. I cooked, I cleaned and took care of the kids.
"I gave my very being to this marriage and look at me now"
" It would appear that, if they could do that then how could i be worthy of my spouses devotion".
And then just like that it all goes wrong due to one terrible decision that was made by your spouse.You feel that you may never be able to recover from this situation and everything is thrown into a pool of negativity.
It is a fact that all plus thoughts suddenly dissapear when an affair hits you. All there is left is minus thoughts and feelings.Trying to feel good about anything, even ones self is almost impossible and all because of that affair.
You are at an all time low now your self esteem is lower than a snakes belly! Everything comes into question from yourself, wedlock, and everything that has happened on the day you ran into one another.How can i turn back from this awful mess? Perhaps there is no turning back.
Did you deserve anything good? did you deserve being happy? did you deserve a good marriage? these are the doubts that are flooding into your mind. Is that divorce so far away now?
Just slow down there.The quickest way to lose ones self-confidence is negativity. You will begin to see yourself as worthless and unworthy but you must not,never ever think that way.When those thoughts come flooding in you ave to think the opposite and tell yourself you are worthy again and again.
Because we have such powerful minds one has to regularly tell ones self that it is you alone who has the control over what goes on in your mind. IT IS YOU AND YOU ALONE.
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