Your hushand or wife has been unfaithful to you and had an affair. You feel that the relationship is in taters and may well be over and you are thinking that it was al down to you.
Because of what happened you are now seeing things in a differant light
You are in this situatio now because of the situation you find yourself in, an unworthy and somewhat broken person.
Cheating: Could it be the end of a dream?
Cast your mind back to the day of the wedding. You would certainly have had great expectations for the future and even lots of happy dreams for the future.
"Life" suddenly replaced that Just Married state where there was always something to be done, cooking, ironing work,etc,etc
Then what happened? Your spouse cheated on you.
When you found out about the affair some of these thoughts may have entered your mind.
Surely i must have cleaned and cooked and took care of our children.Surely.
" I put my heart and soul into this relationship and now i am broken".
" It would appear that, if they could do that then how could i be worthy of my spouses devotion".
And then just like that it all goes wrong due to one terrible decision that was made by your spouse.You feel that you may never be able to recover from this situation and everything is thrown into a pool of negativity.
It is a fact that all plus thoughts suddenly dissapear when an affair hits you. All there is left is minus thoughts and feelings.Trying to feel good about anything, even ones self is almost impossible and all because of that affair.
Your self-worth has suffered a devastating hammer blow thats for sure. Everything is in questionable, You, the marriage, and even the day when you first met each other. Your mind searches through everything and every mistake that you may have made and you come to the conclusion that this could well be the end of this marriage.
Did you deserve anything good? did you deserve being happy? did you deserve a good marriage? these are the doubts that are flooding into your mind. Is that divorce so far away now?
Just slow down there.The quickest way to lose ones self-confidence is negativity. You will begin to see yourself as worthless and unworthy but you must not,never ever think that way.When those thoughts come flooding in you ave to think the opposite and tell yourself you are worthy again and again.
Because we have such powerful minds one has to regularly tell ones self that it is you alone who has the control over what goes on in your mind. IT IS YOU AND YOU ALONE.
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