You've been cheated on by your spouse and your relationship is in serious trouble. Everything that has been put into the relationship may all have been for nothing and of course you are blaming yourself.
You are now looking at the world in a very differant way because of what happened.
You are in this situatio now because of the situation you find yourself in, an unworthy and somewhat broken person.
Cheating: Could it be the end of a dream?
Cast your mind back to the day of the wedding. You would certainly have had great expectations for the future and even lots of happy dreams for the future.
"Life" suddenly replaced that Just Married state where there was always something to be done, cooking, ironing work,etc,etc
Then what happened? Your spouse cheated on you.
When you found out about the affair some of these thoughts may have entered your mind.
I must have do everything properly. I cooked, I cleaned and took care of the kids.
"I gave my very being to this marriage and look at me now"
" It would appear that I am not at all worthy of my spouses devotion if they could do that".
And then just like that it all goes wrong due to one terrible decision that was made by your spouse.You feel that you may never be able to recover from this situation and everything is thrown into a pool of negativity.
Sad to say that when an affair hits the victim side on the rule of thumb for the day becomes negative thoughts. Feeling good about yourself and even anything and everything is hard all positivity goes out of the window because of one thing. your spouses affair.
Your self-worth has suffered a devastating hammer blow thats for sure. Everything is in questionable, You, the marriage, and even the day when you first met each other. Your mind searches through everything and every mistake that you may have made and you come to the conclusion that this could well be the end of this marriage.
Doubts come into your head, did you deserve a good marriage and lots of happiness? All of a sudden you are resigned to accept that its finished with and divorce is just around the corner.
Just slow down there.The quickest way to lose ones self-confidence is negativity. You will begin to see yourself as worthless and unworthy but you must not,never ever think that way.When those thoughts come flooding in you ave to think the opposite and tell yourself you are worthy again and again.
Because we have such powerful minds one has to regularly tell ones self that it is you alone who has the control over what goes on in your mind. IT IS YOU AND YOU ALONE.
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